"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Called it - cougars bite the dust

Nutz

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http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/09/27/another-cougar-bites-the-dust/

Talk about spot on. For those that don't know, back in September Ashton got caught with some girl and downplayed it in the media, meanwhile he and Demi had "couples counseling". The other day she called it quits. I suspect Roissy/Heartiste was correct in that the cheating was more pervasive than just the latest romp he got caught for. It's an illustration of how the media will sell divorce porn, empty promises to women of sexual success later in life, and so on. Just food for thought for older men who are encountering these women in their daily lives.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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He, he had one of the hottest babes ever for quite a while, made him self into a celebrity, so now he's got it made, period, if that's what he wants.
 

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Charlie Sheen would be sitting back having a quiet chuckle to himself...
 

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If I were married to mom, I suspect it wouldn't last.
 
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