"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Called it - cougars bite the dust

Nutz

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http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/09/27/another-cougar-bites-the-dust/

Talk about spot on. For those that don't know, back in September Ashton got caught with some girl and downplayed it in the media, meanwhile he and Demi had "couples counseling". The other day she called it quits. I suspect Roissy/Heartiste was correct in that the cheating was more pervasive than just the latest romp he got caught for. It's an illustration of how the media will sell divorce porn, empty promises to women of sexual success later in life, and so on. Just food for thought for older men who are encountering these women in their daily lives.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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metoo

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He, he had one of the hottest babes ever for quite a while, made him self into a celebrity, so now he's got it made, period, if that's what he wants.
 

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Charlie Sheen would be sitting back having a quiet chuckle to himself...
 

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If I were married to mom, I suspect it wouldn't last.
 
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