"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So i heard that my girlfriend was cheating from a somewhat reliable person, i called her out on it. She started off laughing but when she realized i was serious **** got real. After a long argument and finding out SHE DID NOT she was pissed for a while but i said whatever then she relaxed. I ended up seeing her and she was pretty happy to see me. So anyways i thought about it and felt like an AFC but its not like she was flirting i heard that she was CHEATING, so i think i did right by following judgement. What do you guys think.:)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Whether she cheated or not, you can probably expect everything to go down hill from here.

-Scars
 
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Stingers said:
So i heard that my girlfriend was cheating from a somewhat reliable person, i called her out on it. She started off laughing but when she realized i was serious **** got real. After a long argument and finding out SHE DID NOT she was pissed for a while but i said whatever then she relaxed. I ended up seeing her and she was pretty happy to see me. So anyways i thought about it and felt like an AFC but its not like she was flirting i heard that she was CHEATING, so i think i did right by following judgement. What do you guys think.:)
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Never confront a ***** about something like this. Pretend like you don't care.

Yesterday, one girl that I was seeing, I thought we were dating, tells me she went to the movies with another guy and that she thinks of him as more than friends. So I pretended like we never dated and just asked a couple questions and laughed. TWICE during our conversation, she became mad, probably trying to find a way to get a reaction out of me to push me away.

I ended the conversation well and guess what, she will never get a call from me again. Thanks for being honest babe! =)
 
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Age 16 Relax buddy there are no real relationships that young in life! I doubt she cheated on you. IF she did tell her to go fvck herself and move on. Nothing will be good between you two from here on out.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Stingers said:
So i heard that my girlfriend was cheating from a somewhat reliable person, i called her out on it.
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I hope you're not thinking of a career in law enforcement. If you're going to go through the drama of accusing your girl of cheating, you really need to have something better than just rumour from a "somewhat reliable" person.
 
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Edit: Wait, this is high school!? Never mind.

Edit2: Okay, will put back reply but keep in mind it is for adult relationships. Not for all the fucking hearsay that goes on in high schools...

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She may or may not have cheated but now this relationship is fucked up. You are never gonna trust her and she's gonna resent you. And all this based on third-party hearsay.

It's never a good idea to make important decisions based on hearsay...

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1803930#post1803930
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1799701#post1799701
 
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I think if you aint see it, it ain't happen.
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Yes, let's bury our head in the sand like an Ostrich.

You need to have conclusive proof of a girl cheating before you confront her. I wouldn't go about such a thing based merely on hearsay!
 
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Never ask a girl if she's cheating. Figure out why you think she's cheating on you. If it's because of her behavior, you obviously don't like her behavior. Break up with her because you don't like her behavior. She'll either change it or she won't. Replace her either way. She'll either act right and grovel or she'll be out with someone new in 7 days. If she's out with a new guy in 7 days, that probably answers you question. It doesn't matter though, you dumped because you weren't feeling her and got some new pvssy. Where's that baby meme when you need it?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You should never call out a B!TCH on cheating! They’ll think you’re insecure and they don’t like that. They’ll also think you see them as a slvt for calling them out on it, especially if they aren't cheating. It’s also a B!tch trait and non-attractive to them. Don’t make assumptions. If you have proof, then you can confront her on it OR you can make things really easy and drop her and get some different pvssy. ;)

-GearsGod
 
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Made the same mistake twice -_- surprisingly things haven't changed guess she is a keeper. Thanks guys I feel like dumbsh!t but you've helped
 
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