"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Called a girl from a dating site and got vm but...

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I left a short message but she said her full name so I looked her up on facebook and we have 4 mutual friends, all female and one is my cousin. I don't think I should bring it up in case she thinks it is creepy or something but at the same time all these girls could tell her how great I am. At this point I'm planning on keeping this in my back pocket for a while, what do you think?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Back pocket, for sure!

EDIT: I wanna add something to this.

but at the same time all these girls could tell her how great I am.
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I once thought this was a good idea. I had 2 friends that knew a girl I was trying to hook up with and I had them mention me to her. Turns out, even when girls/women think they are helping, they are likely saying some things that could hurt your chances. Let her find out about you herself. Don't let other peoples opinions of you determine her own, even if in theory they are good opinions.
 
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Correct.

You don't want other girls talking about you. They'll say something stupid, or they'll build you up as some "nice guy".

Don't get other girls involved. In romance and in life, keep as many things under your control as possible. You dictate this girls' opinion of you....not others.
 
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