"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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call or text for second date

det5lonewolf

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last night i met her at the bar and took her home with me. taking her back to her car this morning, i told her i was gonna call her later: today. I wanna go out with her, should i text or call, and what do i say?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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J Roc

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call her and tell her you enjoyed her company and would like to hang out again...
 

Pimp-sicle

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you shouldn't have told her you when you were going to call her, kills the intrigue and mystery. As for your question, either method works since you already did your thing with her.



PIMP
 

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Texting is insulting. Call her.

But wait a day or two.
 
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