"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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call or text for second date

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last night i met her at the bar and took her home with me. taking her back to her car this morning, i told her i was gonna call her later: today. I wanna go out with her, should i text or call, and what do i say?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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call her and tell her you enjoyed her company and would like to hang out again...
 
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you shouldn't have told her you when you were going to call her, kills the intrigue and mystery. As for your question, either method works since you already did your thing with her.



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Texting is insulting. Call her.

But wait a day or two.
 
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