"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Call or forget bout her???

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I went out with this hb not this past weekend but the previous 2 weekends. Went out to dinner and dancing etc.. Had a great time and great spark. Ended up at my pad both nights. I didnt hit it, but we kissed for long periods of time and the second time at my pad, i might have became a little more aggressive, by rubbing her round plump booty if you wanna call that more aggressive, which she seemed to not have a problem with. Dropped her off both times, walked her to her door and kissed both times. Everything sounded good

After the first date, (a sat night) she hadnt called, so i took the initiative to call her the following tuesday being 3 days later, and left a message. She returned my call that night. didnt kiss her till i dropped her off at her house

The second date (another sat night) which i when i was feeling more on her booty, and we kissed alot more through the night. Dropped her off at her pad at 5 am. She laid on me the whole night, and called me a bad boy for feeling and spanking her booty which she had no problem with.

I havent heard from her since. Its been 9 days? This past weekend was empty! WTF?
Should i even bother to call be 10 days tommorrow or just say screw it and not call her nexting her?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sni snif... I smell a sh1t test....or

she simply has another pimp...or

the bottom line she just is not interested.

which one do you pick
 
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This hor gave you the go-ahead for pounding her and you kept massaging her buttocks???? Is it no wonder that this hor is not impressed with your inaction!!!

Rub a booty for no more than 2 minutes then proceed to other pressing matters!!!
 

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Well PR

I did try other pressing matters as in placing my hand on her cooch and and she would stop me so now what? She kept talking about taking her home. I insisted that she just sleep over and i'll give her my bed numerous times but she insisted on me taking her home, so how is this saying she wants me to hit it?

So should i try and call again after 10 days :rolleyes:

OR

Forget about her
 

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Originally posted by FrankWank
Well PR

I did try other pressing matters as in placing my hand on her cooch and and she would stop me so now what? She kept talking about taking her home. I insisted that she just sleep over and i'll give her my bed numerous times but she insisted on me taking her home, so how is this saying she wants me to hit it?

So should i try and call again after 10 days :rolleyes:

OR

Forget about her
Move on bro. There are other girls out there that will let you play with their cooch all night long, lol.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girl lets you rub booty on first date and then the same on second date - then she abandons you because you want more. If you are patient she'll give it up eventually. The question is - how do you get her back?

Call her and check her level of enthusiasm through her voice and convo.
 
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