"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Call now or call in a few weeks ?

Wiesman44

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Went to this crazy party up at Uconn on Saturday. It was a moving in party at an off campus party for one of my friends. Great time to get #'s ! There was this one good looking girl that lived in my dorm freshman year (i'm a senior now). Thought she was attracted to me at the time, but I was AFC and she had a b/f.


Long story short I talked to her for a long time, and got her #. The only tricky thing is she's only up at Uconn for the weekend, and then she's back to jersey where she lives until the semester starts last week of August.

What should I do here ? Call her sometime later in the week, wait a few weeks, get her screen name off "the facebook" and talk to her online for a few weeks til school ? Tell me guys. Never been in this situation before, just wondering the best way to play it out.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Wiesman44

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but Shezz, what I'm saying is, even if I did call, we probably wouldnt be able to hang out until school starts in late August. I live in Connecticut, she lives in Jersey, thats a good 3 hrs away and I'd seem mighty desperate if i drove 3 hrs for a first date, not that i would anyway.


So you think i should just call her, w/o plans of hanging out soon ?
 
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