"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Call now or call in a few weeks ?

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Wiesman44

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Went to this crazy party up at Uconn on Saturday. It was a moving in party at an off campus party for one of my friends. Great time to get #'s ! There was this one good looking girl that lived in my dorm freshman year (i'm a senior now). Thought she was attracted to me at the time, but I was AFC and she had a b/f.


Long story short I talked to her for a long time, and got her #. The only tricky thing is she's only up at Uconn for the weekend, and then she's back to jersey where she lives until the semester starts last week of August.

What should I do here ? Call her sometime later in the week, wait a few weeks, get her screen name off "the facebook" and talk to her online for a few weeks til school ? Tell me guys. Never been in this situation before, just wondering the best way to play it out.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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but Shezz, what I'm saying is, even if I did call, we probably wouldnt be able to hang out until school starts in late August. I live in Connecticut, she lives in Jersey, thats a good 3 hrs away and I'd seem mighty desperate if i drove 3 hrs for a first date, not that i would anyway.


So you think i should just call her, w/o plans of hanging out soon ?
 
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