"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Call me TOMMOROW
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
that makes me grin she set u up to show her whos boss.wait 3-4 days and when u call she'll probably ***** about it (if she doesnt DONT mention it. u won) but if she does tell her you've been out lately and havent had the time.
psh her telling u when to call. thats ur choice.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
isotope
Senior Don Juan
if you asked her to call you tomorrow and she started playing games, wouldnt you be pissed?
How boring is this:
She tells you to call at a set time.
You call
She answers
How predictable is that?
Do what you think you should do, but I'm just giving you advice on what I would do. More than likely, she won't be pissed, she'll just ask why it took so long to call..and that's when you say, "I've been kinda busy." Wow, Jerky I have a life
And that my friends is very attractive to any woman.If I tell a chick to call me tomorrow, she better the ****ing hell call me tomorrow. I don't beat around the bush, playboy. I expect chicks I frequent to do the same.
Test of interests are banned once she has shown interest. And telling you to call her is a clear sign of interest.
"suspense". Mind games aren't suspense. I'll show you some real suspense in the physical realm.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
But I do think that it depends a little more on the situation, so I think you would know better than us if you should call or not. If you act desperate or like a pvssy, then I could see where some of these people are going, because yeah, calling so soon would just look desperate.
As for the whole 3-4 day time span between waiting to call, it is DEFINITELY not a rule set in stone. Master of the Universe put it well, I think the post was called "My Current Thoughts on Seduction."