"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
that makes me grin she set u up to show her whos boss.wait 3-4 days and when u call she'll probably ***** about it (if she doesnt DONT mention it. u won) but if she does tell her you've been out lately and havent had the time.
psh her telling u when to call. thats ur choice.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
isotope
Senior Don Juan
if you asked her to call you tomorrow and she started playing games, wouldnt you be pissed?
How boring is this:
She tells you to call at a set time.
You call
She answers
How predictable is that?
Do what you think you should do, but I'm just giving you advice on what I would do. More than likely, she won't be pissed, she'll just ask why it took so long to call..and that's when you say, "I've been kinda busy." Wow, Jerky I have a life
And that my friends is very attractive to any woman.If I tell a chick to call me tomorrow, she better the ****ing hell call me tomorrow. I don't beat around the bush, playboy. I expect chicks I frequent to do the same.
Test of interests are banned once she has shown interest. And telling you to call her is a clear sign of interest.
"suspense". Mind games aren't suspense. I'll show you some real suspense in the physical realm.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
But I do think that it depends a little more on the situation, so I think you would know better than us if you should call or not. If you act desperate or like a pvssy, then I could see where some of these people are going, because yeah, calling so soon would just look desperate.
As for the whole 3-4 day time span between waiting to call, it is DEFINITELY not a rule set in stone. Master of the Universe put it well, I think the post was called "My Current Thoughts on Seduction."