"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Call me TOMMOROW
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
that makes me grin she set u up to show her whos boss.wait 3-4 days and when u call she'll probably ***** about it (if she doesnt DONT mention it. u won) but if she does tell her you've been out lately and havent had the time.
psh her telling u when to call. thats ur choice.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
isotope
Senior Don Juan
if you asked her to call you tomorrow and she started playing games, wouldnt you be pissed?
How boring is this:
She tells you to call at a set time.
You call
She answers
How predictable is that?
Do what you think you should do, but I'm just giving you advice on what I would do. More than likely, she won't be pissed, she'll just ask why it took so long to call..and that's when you say, "I've been kinda busy." Wow, Jerky I have a life
And that my friends is very attractive to any woman.If I tell a chick to call me tomorrow, she better the ****ing hell call me tomorrow. I don't beat around the bush, playboy. I expect chicks I frequent to do the same.
Test of interests are banned once she has shown interest. And telling you to call her is a clear sign of interest.
"suspense". Mind games aren't suspense. I'll show you some real suspense in the physical realm.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
But I do think that it depends a little more on the situation, so I think you would know better than us if you should call or not. If you act desperate or like a pvssy, then I could see where some of these people are going, because yeah, calling so soon would just look desperate.
As for the whole 3-4 day time span between waiting to call, it is DEFINITELY not a rule set in stone. Master of the Universe put it well, I think the post was called "My Current Thoughts on Seduction."