"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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call her boyfriend right in front of u..?

KingVM

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Ok. does it mean anything when a girl, that you know is attracted to you or think is, and your sitting next to her and she calls her boyfriend pretty much right in front of you??

thankkkkkks.:D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJorBUST

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I didn't think he could make it more obvious that he was kidding, but I guess there is always somebody...
 

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haaaaha so id say thats not good if she calls her boyfriend..hm
 

girl_in_a_boy_forum

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KingVM said:
Ok. does it mean anything when a girl, that you know is attracted to you or think is, and your sitting next to her and she calls her boyfriend pretty much right in front of you??
Uh, I don't know how much more obvious she could get...it's like a last resort; I've called my boyfriend in front of guys who just didn't get the hint.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think it means that they can't control themselves around you so they are trying to get their boyfriend on the phone to re-arouse their loyalties. They may be attracted to you, but they wish they weren't; that kinda thing.

or, like others have said, you may have misread the situation and/or she just led you on with flirting and fake IOIs
 

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1. It means you are not getting any.

2. It means she is setting up a MMF threesome. (If the conversation is about that)

3. It means she is dumping is ass to get you some. (If the conversation is about that)
 
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