"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Caffeine?

wildinthenorth

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I drink a lot of coffee, can anyone tell me if this is good or bad, when trying to gain?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Throttle

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caffeine dehydrates, particularly at coffee-level concentrations. also bad.
 

wildinthenorth

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Thanks! I figured that was the case. I just quit smoking, and have cut way back on the caffeine. Iused to smoke like a chimney, and drink about a pot of coffee a day. Which meant I ate very little. I am hoping for some good gains, over the next few months!
 
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