What do you do when the new love interest is in a class full of hyper class clowns who are funnier than you and get attention? There's one in particular who always totes a guitar around and I can't do that. Am I basically screwed but not the way I wanted? The only way to outdo them is with caffeine but I don't want to be dependent on it.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
C0ckblocking
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
ohiofutballa
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Since when does the extreme hyper and annoying kids get girls? did i miss something?
Be your own person, be laid-back or be an annoying ass clown, but you dont have to resort to using caffeine because you think it will get you ahead, it wont.
The girl is probably laughing at that guy because he is such an idiot. Thats why alot of people would laugh.
So just relax, and talk to the girl the way YOU would, not the hyper ADD kids, or the over-caffeinated guitar-totin wannabes
Thats what i would do at least
Ohiofutballa
Be your own person, be laid-back or be an annoying ass clown, but you dont have to resort to using caffeine because you think it will get you ahead, it wont.
The girl is probably laughing at that guy because he is such an idiot. Thats why alot of people would laugh.
So just relax, and talk to the girl the way YOU would, not the hyper ADD kids, or the over-caffeinated guitar-totin wannabes
Thats what i would do at least
Ohiofutballa
I just give girls my full attention, and make them only care about me. Does she sit near you? Here's what I usually do:
-I switch their books, so when they open it, and notice it's mine, they have to ask for it back.
-When they answer all the questions in one day, and don't answer one. Say in a jerky attitude "I'm surprised you don't have a comment on that one."
-Stare at her, and then when she notices continue staring, and when she looks down and looks back up, keep staring until she says "Quit it." 3 times or she sounds annoyed.
And go from there. Stuff like that just naturally comes to my head after I did it for a while.
Then when she wants your attention, just go one day on her attn, and then the next day off attn. Make her wonder about you.
Just suggestions.
-I switch their books, so when they open it, and notice it's mine, they have to ask for it back.
-When they answer all the questions in one day, and don't answer one. Say in a jerky attitude "I'm surprised you don't have a comment on that one."
-Stare at her, and then when she notices continue staring, and when she looks down and looks back up, keep staring until she says "Quit it." 3 times or she sounds annoyed.
And go from there. Stuff like that just naturally comes to my head after I did it for a while.
Then when she wants your attention, just go one day on her attn, and then the next day off attn. Make her wonder about you.
Just suggestions.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
TonyTheTigerOI
Master Don Juan
Honestly... some ******* making a specticle is a GIFT. Its the perfect approach, an awsome startup topic, and its low energy.
"I cant believe it... hes playing that guitar AGAIN! I hear he learned it from his grandma!"
"really?"
"Thats the rumor. Do you play an instrament?"
"What a cute kid <motion to loud *******>"
"<laughs> yeah"
"Just imagine how boooring <math class> would be without <hisname> goin wild"
"hehe, yeah"
"Personally, I only go wild on weekends... Ive got to pace myself <smile> Hey, how did you spend last weekend, did you go to that huge party in <other suburb>?"
The possibilities are endless.
"I cant believe it... hes playing that guitar AGAIN! I hear he learned it from his grandma!"
"really?"
"Thats the rumor. Do you play an instrament?"
"What a cute kid <motion to loud *******>"
"<laughs> yeah"
"Just imagine how boooring <math class> would be without <hisname> goin wild"
"hehe, yeah"
"Personally, I only go wild on weekends... Ive got to pace myself <smile> Hey, how did you spend last weekend, did you go to that huge party in <other suburb>?"
The possibilities are endless.
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
has this EVER got you laid?
