"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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c0ckbl0cking friend wants ME to help him out

sharpshooter

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This guy's been c0ckbl0cking me for like 5 years in a various amount of ways. He's the type of guy who would never introduce you to a chick that he knows (even if he's not gonna attempt to pick her up or get with her in that type of way). Now, yesterday we were at a club and I got the number of some chick he was trying to pick up earlier (because I didn't come off as a drunken moron like him). Now all of a sudden he calls me up this morning and wants me to give him her number. He wants me to invite her out to the movies (with the both of us, that wouldbe weird as ****). This guy is unbelievable. The type of guy that would bring everyone down if he's not getting any. I'm not obsessed with this chick or anything, but there's some type of principal involved in this. Maybe I'll tell him that she thought he was a drunken idiot. No doesn't seem to cut it for this guy, he keeps asking/hassling and coming up with moronic reasons for why we should take her and her friends out tonight. The guy even wanted me to call her this morning, the morning after getting the number.

I don't know, he's just a roadblock that's pissing me off
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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JT47319

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If he's any good as a Natural, make him your wing by TEACHING him wing tactics.

As for this particular situation, don't supplicate to him. You got the number, you get the prize. The only circumstance that would dictate otherwise is if she was OBVIOUSLY more interested in him than you, which it doesn't sound like it.

And yes, I'd suggest calling the next day so as to maintain her emotional state and set up a Day2 ASAP so you get more game time in with her and bag & tag her.
 

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I can never make him my wingman. He thinks he knows it all when it comes to women. I've tried helping him out with a few tips before but he thinks he's mr "know it all" when it comes to chicks.


I just don't feel comfortable calling someone the next day (within 24 hours). For me it has to be 2 or 3 days but i'll see.
 

JT47319

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Originally posted by sharpshooter
For me it has to be 2 or 3 days but i'll see.
The two to three day rule is lame and a product of a bygone era of social circle sarging.

I've had day2s with a girl I #closed on Thursday and totally forgot what she looked like on Sunday. Now hot girls are getting hit on constantly, getting #closed everyday, and has the emotional capabilities of a chameleon, how the fuck do you think waiting a couple of days is going to help you?
 

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you know what, i think you might be right....


i'm now thinking that I should call her up tonight, instead of tommorow
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hollowpoint

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why is this even a thread?

don't help him out, tell him he's been a prick in the past and the girl thinks he's a drunken slob
 

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Your friend sounds like he is an AFC. Bringing people down because he isn't getting any is hardly being a friend, that would annoy the hell out of me. You could still be his friend, but I wouldn't go out hunting chicks with him. I guess it's up to you to decide wether or not if he is worth the time to reform him from being an AFC. Otherwise I would blow him off and say you have other plans when you're out sarging babes. It is hard enough dealin' with ****blocking chicks, not alone your friend. Why help him out when he never helps you, and all he does is screw with your game? It's tough finding good wingmen, luckily I have a couple quality ones....
 

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Originally posted by sharpshooter
This guy's been c0ckbl0cking me for like 5 years in a various amount of ways....

I don't know, he's just a roadblock that's pissing me off
And you hang out with him, why?

Where are the positives?
 

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I feel ya

I hate ****blockers. what u do is be direct with your friend. Say yo! im feelin this girl so i wanna roll with her to the movies. If he doesn't get it, you gotta get mean man. I be real mad when im excited and get blocked. You gotta let him know where u comming from
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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jason86

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why are you even thinking about doing this! wtf!? you got the number then that means its your number, end of matter. fuk man! this has actually pissed me off. basically he never sorts you out with a girl and you are thinking of sorting him out now, even though you got the number. now i can kind of see why u are considering giving it coz you dont want to ruin your friendship or something but to be honest he doesnt sound like a friend to me. he sounds like one of those pricks whos all out for himself
 

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i had it worse than you. I knew this dude for like 8 years almost, he is the most emotional insecure dude you will ever know...dude would always open up to me in every conversation we had! At first i thought it was pretty weird but i was in the 7th grade and i thought if i didnt listen to him, i wasnt being a good friend. But S.HIT!!...for 8 years...you know after 8 years of listening to him cry to me about his feelings like the little B.ITCH he was...im glad i dont hang around with his f@ggot @ss anymore cuz all he was doing was brainwashing me and made me depressed like he was. I realized that he was holding me down, i never even had a gf thoughout that 8 year or hung out with anyone cool cuz of him. my life is way better now that i stopped talking to his ass. I wasted 8 years of my life because of that B.ITCH. its been almost 2 years since ive talked to him and my life has turned around for the better, my attitude, and confidence has changed drastically...im an alpha male now. :cool:
 
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