"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Charm&Style

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Ive come to realize that whenever we (me and my gf) get into an argument her best friend--a girl--(which is also a very good friend of mine) begins to do some kind of c0ckblock.

Like shell be like this guys is freakin ghey, dont talk to him for a while, lol pretty much shvt i read on this site she tells her to do on me.

My girl is a very sweet and humble chick, and she loves me to death but her friend needs a :trouble: eventhough shes a good friend of mine whose also in a relationship with another friend of mine.


My question is how should i bring this up to my girl, making her take my side more than her best friend. By me saying "take my side" i mean to have her juss keep our shvt between me and her.


Jakesh Out

tanx

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Missery loves company. Obviously your girl's friend isn't happy in the relationship with your friend and she'll try to make everybody around her miserable as well.

Other than that you answered you question in your last paragraph.
 

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:confused: who said anything about my gf's best friend not being happy with her bf...??
 

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Shes probably one of those fuking people who needs the undivideed attention of he friends.

You should tell your girlfriend that anything that happens in your relationship is between you two only, so she shouldnt do anything her friend says.

Im not saying they cant talk about it, but your gfs friend should not have any executive power in your relationship.
 

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Phoenix_of_the_ashes said:
Shes probably one of those fuking people who needs the undivideed attention of he friends.

You should tell your girlfriend that anything that happens in your relationship is between you two only, so she shouldnt do anything her friend says.

Im not saying they cant talk about it, but your gfs friend should not have any executive power in your relationship.

werd !


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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Phoenix_of_the_ashes said:
You should tell your girlfriend that anything that happens in your relationship is between you two only, so she shouldnt do anything her friend says.
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Hahaha, get real. Not going to happen. She'll tell anyone whatever and whenever she wants. Then she'll listen intently and allow her decisions to be greatly affected by what others say.


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Dude, if she's pulling sh1t like ignoring you because she's mad at you at the behest of her friend why are you going out with her? Are you guys 12? What freakin mature adult pulls the "i'm going to ignore you to show you i'm mad" game?
 

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bro i never mentioned anything about her ignoring me.

Like i said my gf is the chillest girl ever, im just concerned of our friend (her bestfriend)...i know i cant have my gf not spill her heart to her bestfriend which i dont want that, i juss want her best friend to keep her nose in her own sh!t.

Its like her best friend is a member of this site cuz of the sh!t she tells my gf hahaha

:nervous:
 

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I HATE relationship question in these forums, thats what Ann Landers is for.

However, If you're friends with GF'sFriend, talk to your GF first. Ask her what her opinion is on GFFriend always saying bad things about you when you two are fighting. Then if she agrees, you both talk to GFFriend and say along the lines of 'You're a great friend blah blah blah, but we don't get why when we fight you have nothing but bad things to say about Charm&Style.'

Lol ****, that sounded better in my head. You and your girlfriend just need to have a united front to confront her with. Then ask the GF if she's open to a threesome cause maybe GFFriend is just lonely, horny and jealous.
 

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Bussey said:
Then ask the GF if she's open to a threesome cause maybe GFFriend is just lonely, horny and jealous.
:yes: :rock:


I Liiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiike.
 

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Charm&Style said:
Ive come to realize that whenever we (me and my gf) get into an argument her best friend--a girl--(which is also a very good friend of mine) begins to do some kind of c0ckblock.

Like shell be like this guys is freakin ghey, dont talk to him for a while, lol pretty much shvt i read on this site she tells her to do on me.

My girl is a very sweet and humble chick, and she loves me to death but her friend needs a :trouble: eventhough shes a good friend of mine whose also in a relationship with another friend of mine.


My question is how should i bring this up to my girl, making her take my side more than her best friend. By me saying "take my side" i mean to have her juss keep our shvt between me and her.


Jakesh Out

tanx

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If she doesn't have a mind of her own and her gf's opinion would change her mind about you, then she's not worth it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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bro my gf aint pissing me off at all cuz she comes to her senses when she leaves the presense of her best friend.

Its her best friend thats annoying me.
 

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Charm&Style said:
bro i never mentioned anything about her ignoring me.
Golly gee that's why i said "if"

Like shell be like this guys is freakin ghey, dont talk to him for a while, lol pretty much shvt i read on this site she tells her to do on me.
You implied it here anyway. If she's not listening to what her dumbfvck friend tells her to do why do you give a damn anyway?



Jesus christ you people make everything so difficult.
 

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Charm&Style said:
bro my gf aint pissing me off at all cuz she comes to her senses when she leaves the presense of her best friend.
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Wait now she DOES listen to her friend? Make up your mind.
 

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haha its like this bro...her beest friend will start tellin her all this shvt and shell juss not say anything...my gf is chill, its her best friend that plays a threat
 

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who said anything about my gf's best friend not being happy with her bf...??
haha its like this bro...her beest friend will start tellin her all this shvt and shell juss not say anything...my gf is chill, its her best friend that plays a threat
That's why I say she must be miserable in her relationship with your friend cause she's all in your sh!t trying to push a wedge between you and your girl. On the flip side, it could be your girl telling her things about you that you're not in the "Know" about.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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