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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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C.S. Lewis on Building Men with Chests

Willie Naylor

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On this forum, I've noticed there isn't much talk about how we, as men, can shape ourselves - independent of any mention of women.

That's not a gripe, merely an observation. One of my favorite authors is C.S. Lewis, and here's a recent podcast that discusses Lewis' thoughts on 'building men with chests.' C.S. believed the chest to be the 'seat of virtue-seeking sentiments and well-tuned emotions.' It's about 45 minutes long, so, if you are so inclined, I highly recommend the listen:

Podcast #765: C.S. Lewis on Building Men With Chests | The Art of Manliness

"Like Plato, C.S. Lewis believed that the human soul was made up of three parts — the head (the rational, reason-driven part of you), the belly (your appetites and base instincts), and the chest (the seat of virtue-seeking sentiments and well-tuned emotions). In order for your head to make your decisions, particularly the decision to live a virtuous life, rather than your decisions being driven by your belly, the head needs the aid of the chest, of right feeling.

A few months ago, we had Michael Ward on the show to talk about why C.S. Lewis felt that modern life was making “men without chests.” Today, I talk to a guest who can shed light on what Lewis thought was needed to build that chest back up."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Will check that one out. That podcast always seems to have some great topics. Thanks for posting
 

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On this forum, I've noticed there isn't much talk about how we, as men, can shape ourselves - independent of any mention of women.

That's not a gripe, merely an observation. One of my favorite authors is C.S. Lewis, and here's a recent podcast that discusses Lewis' thoughts on 'building men with chests.' C.S. believed the chest to be the 'seat of virtue-seeking sentiments and well-tuned emotions.' It's about 45 minutes long, so, if you are so inclined, I highly recommend the listen:

Podcast #765: C.S. Lewis on Building Men With Chests | The Art of Manliness

"Like Plato, C.S. Lewis believed that the human soul was made up of three parts — the head (the rational, reason-driven part of you), the belly (your appetites and base instincts), and the chest (the seat of virtue-seeking sentiments and well-tuned emotions). In order for your head to make your decisions, particularly the decision to live a virtuous life, rather than your decisions being driven by your belly, the head needs the aid of the chest, of right feeling.

A few months ago, we had Michael Ward on the show to talk about why C.S. Lewis felt that modern life was making “men without chests.” Today, I talk to a guest who can shed light on what Lewis thought was needed to build that chest back up."
I heard it yesterday on a long drive. There was an article about the topic on the website months ago when I remember correctly.

The article is from 2018
 
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