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C.S. Lewis on Building Men with Chests

Willie Naylor

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On this forum, I've noticed there isn't much talk about how we, as men, can shape ourselves - independent of any mention of women.

That's not a gripe, merely an observation. One of my favorite authors is C.S. Lewis, and here's a recent podcast that discusses Lewis' thoughts on 'building men with chests.' C.S. believed the chest to be the 'seat of virtue-seeking sentiments and well-tuned emotions.' It's about 45 minutes long, so, if you are so inclined, I highly recommend the listen:

Podcast #765: C.S. Lewis on Building Men With Chests | The Art of Manliness

"Like Plato, C.S. Lewis believed that the human soul was made up of three parts — the head (the rational, reason-driven part of you), the belly (your appetites and base instincts), and the chest (the seat of virtue-seeking sentiments and well-tuned emotions). In order for your head to make your decisions, particularly the decision to live a virtuous life, rather than your decisions being driven by your belly, the head needs the aid of the chest, of right feeling.

A few months ago, we had Michael Ward on the show to talk about why C.S. Lewis felt that modern life was making “men without chests.” Today, I talk to a guest who can shed light on what Lewis thought was needed to build that chest back up."
 

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Will check that one out. That podcast always seems to have some great topics. Thanks for posting
 

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On this forum, I've noticed there isn't much talk about how we, as men, can shape ourselves - independent of any mention of women.

That's not a gripe, merely an observation. One of my favorite authors is C.S. Lewis, and here's a recent podcast that discusses Lewis' thoughts on 'building men with chests.' C.S. believed the chest to be the 'seat of virtue-seeking sentiments and well-tuned emotions.' It's about 45 minutes long, so, if you are so inclined, I highly recommend the listen:

Podcast #765: C.S. Lewis on Building Men With Chests | The Art of Manliness

"Like Plato, C.S. Lewis believed that the human soul was made up of three parts — the head (the rational, reason-driven part of you), the belly (your appetites and base instincts), and the chest (the seat of virtue-seeking sentiments and well-tuned emotions). In order for your head to make your decisions, particularly the decision to live a virtuous life, rather than your decisions being driven by your belly, the head needs the aid of the chest, of right feeling.

A few months ago, we had Michael Ward on the show to talk about why C.S. Lewis felt that modern life was making “men without chests.” Today, I talk to a guest who can shed light on what Lewis thought was needed to build that chest back up."
I heard it yesterday on a long drive. There was an article about the topic on the website months ago when I remember correctly.

The article is from 2018
 
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