C&F'd by a Woman!

[Juando]

Went to a yoga class tonight, dragged my exhausted butt back home and this cute girl passes me as I'm walking.

She looked up at me and gave ME a hard time for walking slow!

It turned into a game until I caught up with her, talked, found out she lives on my block!

Very cute and sassy, I like this one...


I C&F women as much as I can and I like it but the truth is... it does not come totally naturally for me. Will it with more practice?

Damn, the thing that got me about this girl was that she is a "natural"- her whole attitude, tone, and body language was C&F. And totally relaxed..

I'm envious, I want what she's got.

 

[Juando]

Went for a swim, felt Great coming out of the surf, of course.

So feeling really good, thought about this woman I met at the beach a couple of weeks ago- "Hey!" and there she is in the cookie aisle at the market...

Point is, she got C&Fd nonstop to make up for last night...

She loved it, talked about going to the movies and I said, Why would I want to go to the movies, I do that stuff alone, like museums..

"I'm gonna make you go with me" she says and speeds off.

So, I'm glad about last night, every experience is an opportunity to learn, stretch and build.

Two forward, one back, right?

 

[OneEyedJack]

Well done!

NEVER stop!

Busting her (and other people's) ball is now your way of life. Work it, practice it, reap the rewards.

 

[Truman181]

Dude, props!

About C&F. If done wrong it can come off like you're either insecure or just being a d!ck.

See the thing is most guys use it as a way to get back at women for all the times they felt women fukked them over. Like it's a way to FINALLY put the woman in her place. C&F doesn't work if it's coming from a bad place (the wrong mindset).

The goal is to make the interaction PLAYFUL. That's the right place to be coming from: a fun, playful mentality. Then try to be confident with your playfulness. ****y & Funny should be replaced by Confident & Playful.

Anyway, hope that helps!

 

[Juando]

Dude, props!

About C&F. If done wrong it can come off like you're either insecure or just being a d!ck.

See the thing is most guys use it as a way to get back at women for all the times they felt women fukked them over. Like it's a way to FINALLY put the woman in her place. C&F doesn't work if it's coming from a bad place (the wrong mindset).

The goal is to make the interaction PLAYFUL. That's the right place to be coming from: a fun, playful mentality. Then try to be confident with your playfulness. ****y & Funny should be replaced by Confident & Playful.

Anyway, hope that helps!

Makes sense to me.

She reinforced what we're talking about here, telling me how she broke up with a guy after a year because... he was too needy, too dependent, not enough invested in his own life.

I'm discovering a wrinkle that will make staying confident and playful more of a challenge: this woman is very comfortable, as in wealthy; hmm, am it up to it? We shall see. Meanwhile I'm spinning or attempting to spin other plates as much as possible...

I AM having fun with her, and she must be as well if she's threatening me that she's going to make me go out with her...