Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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C+F Versus a HB9

Nikar

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apparently, there's this girl i'm trying to win over. i'm not trying to fcuk her or something, like i said before. i'm trying to get her to be in a long-term r/s. i may fail, but things still worth a try and we can LJBF if all else fails, right? :)

anyway, for those of you who read my other thread about a girl and the e-mail FW thing, this babe isn't the same as that one.
i'm kinda trying out two girls(both HB9) at the same time, but that's not the question.

now, the problem is : C+F doesn't seem to work on this girl!
first, she's at least a HB9 and if not, a HB9.5.
because of this, u guessed it : every fcuking male, from her male schoolmates to her male teachers to those male shop vendors she always buy things from, are always sucking up to her like she's an immortal. you may laugh at these AFCs, but i think they're winning the war.

and because of this kinda all-nice stuff given to her since young, she's like treating herself like some goddess. not princess or queen, but goddess!!!!
she gets kinda mad as long as you say things she doesn't wanna hear, and even light C+F, with some funny stuff in it, fails on her, cos' all she wants to hear is : nice sweet words that are totally designed to kiss up, suck up and flatter her even more.

and she quarrels with boys. yes. which type of boys? those brave boys who had the guts to tell her where she's wrong.

i haven't really tell her in her face that i can't stand this kinda attitude, but i'm gonna tell it soon. should i? or should i continue C+F(the thing is, she gets offended!).

so, those real DJs, what would you do? any nice tricks?

or....should i next her?(i know there's lots of girls, but HB9s and above are not easy to find, considering my standards are real high.......all girls u see every day are mostly a 6 - 8, at most.)

see ye all,
nikar.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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pokie87

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She cleary doesn't have a sense of humour and is up her own booty. Best thing to do is next her as you don't wanna be with a girl like that anyway.
 

Nikar

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thanks guys!

aren't neg hits almost similar to C+F, or are they more targetted at making fun of the girl's appearances?
(like that classic "your nose wiggles when you talk....very cute! etc.)

how about "the way you walk is funny, like bugs bunny! real cute!"

anyone care to give some examples of neg-hits targetted at some ***** who can't take C+F humour well?

thanks all!
nikar.
 

I'm Joe Dirt

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Well if she can't take any humor at all and she is up in her own little world, why would you even wanna pursue a girl like that?

But uh yeah, you had the right idea there about neg hits.

Try that, if that don't work, move on. There are plenty of girls out there who look good too and can also take a joke and are more friendly than that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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