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C+F Versus a HB9

Nikar

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apparently, there's this girl i'm trying to win over. i'm not trying to fcuk her or something, like i said before. i'm trying to get her to be in a long-term r/s. i may fail, but things still worth a try and we can LJBF if all else fails, right? :)

anyway, for those of you who read my other thread about a girl and the e-mail FW thing, this babe isn't the same as that one.
i'm kinda trying out two girls(both HB9) at the same time, but that's not the question.

now, the problem is : C+F doesn't seem to work on this girl!
first, she's at least a HB9 and if not, a HB9.5.
because of this, u guessed it : every fcuking male, from her male schoolmates to her male teachers to those male shop vendors she always buy things from, are always sucking up to her like she's an immortal. you may laugh at these AFCs, but i think they're winning the war.

and because of this kinda all-nice stuff given to her since young, she's like treating herself like some goddess. not princess or queen, but goddess!!!!
she gets kinda mad as long as you say things she doesn't wanna hear, and even light C+F, with some funny stuff in it, fails on her, cos' all she wants to hear is : nice sweet words that are totally designed to kiss up, suck up and flatter her even more.

and she quarrels with boys. yes. which type of boys? those brave boys who had the guts to tell her where she's wrong.

i haven't really tell her in her face that i can't stand this kinda attitude, but i'm gonna tell it soon. should i? or should i continue C+F(the thing is, she gets offended!).

so, those real DJs, what would you do? any nice tricks?

or....should i next her?(i know there's lots of girls, but HB9s and above are not easy to find, considering my standards are real high.......all girls u see every day are mostly a 6 - 8, at most.)

see ye all,
nikar.
 

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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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pokie87

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She cleary doesn't have a sense of humour and is up her own booty. Best thing to do is next her as you don't wanna be with a girl like that anyway.
 

Nikar

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thanks guys!

aren't neg hits almost similar to C+F, or are they more targetted at making fun of the girl's appearances?
(like that classic "your nose wiggles when you talk....very cute! etc.)

how about "the way you walk is funny, like bugs bunny! real cute!"

anyone care to give some examples of neg-hits targetted at some ***** who can't take C+F humour well?

thanks all!
nikar.
 

I'm Joe Dirt

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Well if she can't take any humor at all and she is up in her own little world, why would you even wanna pursue a girl like that?

But uh yeah, you had the right idea there about neg hits.

Try that, if that don't work, move on. There are plenty of girls out there who look good too and can also take a joke and are more friendly than that.
 

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