"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The other day I found my self in a situation that i am in alot. I will make funny remark in front of a couple of girls and they wont hear me, because of an interuption or something. well when one girl turns to say "what did u say" i really dont feel like repeating it cuz i kinda feel stupid. So monday night this happend to me an when this really hott girl looked at me and said "what did u say" i respond by saying "Blondes are deaf". Well she was shoked that i said that and gave me that "i know you didnt" look! and all of her friends started laughing.

I figured that this might help some one that is in this situation, because sometime i have been stuck feelin stupid.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You didn't feel stupid when you made, not only an offensive stereotypical comment, but one that makes ZERO sense at all? Blondes aren't known for being hearing impaired. So when they laughed, they were probably laughing at the random cry for attention, rather than at your amazing witty, "****y and funny" sense of humor.

Next time instead of acting like you don't need to impress somebody in order to impress somebody, be NORMAL and really STOP trying to impress people all together. It's just conversation. You've been doing this since you were 2.

-Blitz
 
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i don't know what ^^^^ he was talking about, but i undurstud the comment perfectly and it's puirty funny.:crackup: thanx
 
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your 16..so you have plenty of time to get it together..just read the bible...and put into action the things in there you feel will be usefull for you.
 
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