"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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iCanDoThat

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The other day I found my self in a situation that i am in alot. I will make funny remark in front of a couple of girls and they wont hear me, because of an interuption or something. well when one girl turns to say "what did u say" i really dont feel like repeating it cuz i kinda feel stupid. So monday night this happend to me an when this really hott girl looked at me and said "what did u say" i respond by saying "Blondes are deaf". Well she was shoked that i said that and gave me that "i know you didnt" look! and all of her friends started laughing.

I figured that this might help some one that is in this situation, because sometime i have been stuck feelin stupid.

Peace
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You didn't feel stupid when you made, not only an offensive stereotypical comment, but one that makes ZERO sense at all? Blondes aren't known for being hearing impaired. So when they laughed, they were probably laughing at the random cry for attention, rather than at your amazing witty, "****y and funny" sense of humor.

Next time instead of acting like you don't need to impress somebody in order to impress somebody, be NORMAL and really STOP trying to impress people all together. It's just conversation. You've been doing this since you were 2.

-Blitz
 
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i don't know what ^^^^ he was talking about, but i undurstud the comment perfectly and it's puirty funny.:crackup: thanx
 
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your 16..so you have plenty of time to get it together..just read the bible...and put into action the things in there you feel will be usefull for you.
 
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