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bacchus

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I received the following PM from a HB9 (based on pictures in her profile) on a message board that I have started posting on:

"I would like to see a picture of you. May I? -Lisa"

I'm new to the "internet social scene" so I'm not sure what to say. I usually pick up girls at bars or parties, and am naturally c/f in person. On other message boards and chat rooms that I have tried out recently, this is almost invariably the first question that girls ask me. Instead of just replying with "sure" and sending her my pic like I usually do, what should a don juan do in this situation to capture a girl's interest?

Thanks...
 

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AlexTheGreat

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Originally posted by bacchus
I received the following PM from a HB9 (based on pictures in her profile) on a message board that I have started posting on:

"I would like to see a picture of you. May I? -Lisa"

I'm new to the "internet social scene" so I'm not sure what to say. I usually pick up girls at bars or parties, and am naturally c/f in person. On other message boards and chat rooms that I have tried out recently, this is almost invariably the first question that girls ask me. Instead of just replying with "sure" and sending her my pic like I usually do, what should a don juan do in this situation to capture a girl's interest?

Thanks...

answer : "Sure, when do you want to meet so I can give them to you ? ;)"
 

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Just for the record, when a girl opens you DO NOT USE ****Y FUNNY ... if you had said something ****y funny after she asked for your picture you could risk turning her off ...

Yeah, you should have used something similar to the example in the above post. It is not ****y funny, but does work to build repore.
 

bacchus

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Originally posted by rgeere
Just for the record, when a girl opens you DO NOT USE ****Y FUNNY ... if you had said something ****y funny after she asked for your picture you could risk turning her off ...

Yeah, you should have used something similar to the example in the above post. It is not ****y funny, but does work to build repore.
You don't think the above post makes me look like I'm a little too eager for her approval? What about saying something like "Why, are you lonely? Can't you meet guys in the real world?"
 

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That would be a real insult.

Don't think too much about a picture exchange. There are always tons of other girls out there. Trying to make every little part of the convo to some challenge will only prove how much effort you put into it and how eager you are. Don't give a ****, she'll either like you or not.
 

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Re: Re: C/F reply to the following

Originally posted by AlexTheGreat
answer : "Sure, when do you want to meet so I can give them to you ? ;)"
 

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Originally posted by Unregistered
http://www.boomspeed.com/xenohell/stassys223as6zt.jpg

Send her this!

:up: :up:

I've used this same tactic with great success.

In my experience they usually either get confused and/or don't believe it's you, or get defensive because you're trying to trick them, or laugh, although it almost always sets up the challenge for them to try and pull your real picture out of you.
 
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