"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I received the following PM from a HB9 (based on pictures in her profile) on a message board that I have started posting on:

"I would like to see a picture of you. May I? -Lisa"

I'm new to the "internet social scene" so I'm not sure what to say. I usually pick up girls at bars or parties, and am naturally c/f in person. On other message boards and chat rooms that I have tried out recently, this is almost invariably the first question that girls ask me. Instead of just replying with "sure" and sending her my pic like I usually do, what should a don juan do in this situation to capture a girl's interest?

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by bacchus
I received the following PM from a HB9 (based on pictures in her profile) on a message board that I have started posting on:

"I would like to see a picture of you. May I? -Lisa"

I'm new to the "internet social scene" so I'm not sure what to say. I usually pick up girls at bars or parties, and am naturally c/f in person. On other message boards and chat rooms that I have tried out recently, this is almost invariably the first question that girls ask me. Instead of just replying with "sure" and sending her my pic like I usually do, what should a don juan do in this situation to capture a girl's interest?

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answer : "Sure, when do you want to meet so I can give them to you ? ;)"
 
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Just for the record, when a girl opens you DO NOT USE ****Y FUNNY ... if you had said something ****y funny after she asked for your picture you could risk turning her off ...

Yeah, you should have used something similar to the example in the above post. It is not ****y funny, but does work to build repore.
 
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Originally posted by rgeere
Just for the record, when a girl opens you DO NOT USE ****Y FUNNY ... if you had said something ****y funny after she asked for your picture you could risk turning her off ...

Yeah, you should have used something similar to the example in the above post. It is not ****y funny, but does work to build repore.
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You don't think the above post makes me look like I'm a little too eager for her approval? What about saying something like "Why, are you lonely? Can't you meet guys in the real world?"
 
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That would be a real insult.

Don't think too much about a picture exchange. There are always tons of other girls out there. Trying to make every little part of the convo to some challenge will only prove how much effort you put into it and how eager you are. Don't give a ****, she'll either like you or not.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Re: Re: C/F reply to the following

Originally posted by AlexTheGreat
answer : "Sure, when do you want to meet so I can give them to you ? ;)"
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Originally posted by Unregistered
http://www.boomspeed.com/xenohell/stassys223as6zt.jpg

Send her this!
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:up: :up:

I've used this same tactic with great success.

In my experience they usually either get confused and/or don't believe it's you, or get defensive because you're trying to trick them, or laugh, although it almost always sets up the challenge for them to try and pull your real picture out of you.
 
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