"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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C/F on "sweet girls"?

Gravyboat

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Hey guys.

I was wondering if any of you would be willing to share their experiences using the ****y & funny approach on "sweet" girls.

More specifically, the kinds of girls who don't have much of a "b*tch bone."

Do you find it works the same as it does on girls who are more aloof? Do you find it works BETTER on sweet girls? Or do you find it alienates them a bit and drives them away?

I'm just curious about what you've experienced. For me, it does seem to work on them, but I wanted to hear other peoples' perspectives.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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cohen

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Girls without thick skin tend to be very sensitive to comments so you have to be careful. Be more playful with them!
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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someone is confusing neghit and C&F :rolleyes: make that 2 of u (Gravyboat, cohen)
 

DJDamage

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It all depends if the woman likes you or not beforehand. If the woman dislikes you, don't get into C&F or negative hits because she will hate you! AVOID AVOID AVOID.

Even the sweet ones like C&F, use that if she likes you but don't use negative hits unless you think you are dealing with a princess on a pedastal and she needs to be brought down a notch or two.
 

cohen

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I have had a sweet one be interested in me before, but I ruined it with a neg. hit.

Not all of them dig it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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