"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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C/F on "sweet girls"?

Gravyboat

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Hey guys.

I was wondering if any of you would be willing to share their experiences using the ****y & funny approach on "sweet" girls.

More specifically, the kinds of girls who don't have much of a "b*tch bone."

Do you find it works the same as it does on girls who are more aloof? Do you find it works BETTER on sweet girls? Or do you find it alienates them a bit and drives them away?

I'm just curious about what you've experienced. For me, it does seem to work on them, but I wanted to hear other peoples' perspectives.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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cohen

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Girls without thick skin tend to be very sensitive to comments so you have to be careful. Be more playful with them!
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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someone is confusing neghit and C&F :rolleyes: make that 2 of u (Gravyboat, cohen)
 

DJDamage

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It all depends if the woman likes you or not beforehand. If the woman dislikes you, don't get into C&F or negative hits because she will hate you! AVOID AVOID AVOID.

Even the sweet ones like C&F, use that if she likes you but don't use negative hits unless you think you are dealing with a princess on a pedastal and she needs to be brought down a notch or two.
 

cohen

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I have had a sweet one be interested in me before, but I ruined it with a neg. hit.

Not all of them dig it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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