"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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C&F on Sensitive Girl

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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First off you need to ask yourself if being ****y and Funny is the best way to get an insecure/sensitive chick. What are the chances of her taking a joke too literally or something? If you insist on C&F, the amount used depends what kind of insecurity she has. If she is the type to try and punch you or lash out at you, then just being confident and ignoring her trying to debase you is enough. That is when she tries to appear confident on the outside but is insecure as hell on the inside. An analogy I read on fastseduction is that these chicks are hidin behind a wall and once you step around the wall, they are naked and cowering, exposed as hell. If she is insecure to the point that she is quiet and it is obvious just show her how you are the only one who will like her or that you are the best she can ever do and she will eat it up, kinda like stockholm syndrome. Sounds cruel but you're looking for answers and that is one of em


What I don't understand is why a man would want to go after an insecure chick. Are you gonna try and make her secure? Sounds like too much effort imo when there are (more) secure chicks just around the corner
 
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I've the same problem and its a hard one to know what to say. Maybe I'm looking too much into it?

I'd say you should always be funny and maybe tone down the ****y a bit..
 
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Microphone Fiend said:
If she is insecure to the point that she is quiet and it is obvious just show her how you are the only one who will like her or that you are the best she can ever do and she will eat it up, kinda like stockholm syndrome.
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How do you show her you're the only one who'll like her? Do you let her know how lucky she is to have you?
 
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well we are talking insecure chicks here. Display some value, and then when you u get her, treat her like dirt and she'll stick to you like mud. Let her know she aint worth sh!t and that you did her a favor by actually giving her your attention. This wont work on a regular chick, but for some reason you want to go after an insecure chick. I don't see it as much more than an ego boost, and it will probably hurt you in the long run, but to each his own i guess.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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