"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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C&F on Sensitive Girl

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Microphone Fiend

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First off you need to ask yourself if being ****y and Funny is the best way to get an insecure/sensitive chick. What are the chances of her taking a joke too literally or something? If you insist on C&F, the amount used depends what kind of insecurity she has. If she is the type to try and punch you or lash out at you, then just being confident and ignoring her trying to debase you is enough. That is when she tries to appear confident on the outside but is insecure as hell on the inside. An analogy I read on fastseduction is that these chicks are hidin behind a wall and once you step around the wall, they are naked and cowering, exposed as hell. If she is insecure to the point that she is quiet and it is obvious just show her how you are the only one who will like her or that you are the best she can ever do and she will eat it up, kinda like stockholm syndrome. Sounds cruel but you're looking for answers and that is one of em


What I don't understand is why a man would want to go after an insecure chick. Are you gonna try and make her secure? Sounds like too much effort imo when there are (more) secure chicks just around the corner
 

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I've the same problem and its a hard one to know what to say. Maybe I'm looking too much into it?

I'd say you should always be funny and maybe tone down the ****y a bit..
 

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Microphone Fiend said:
If she is insecure to the point that she is quiet and it is obvious just show her how you are the only one who will like her or that you are the best she can ever do and she will eat it up, kinda like stockholm syndrome.
How do you show her you're the only one who'll like her? Do you let her know how lucky she is to have you?
 

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well we are talking insecure chicks here. Display some value, and then when you u get her, treat her like dirt and she'll stick to you like mud. Let her know she aint worth sh!t and that you did her a favor by actually giving her your attention. This wont work on a regular chick, but for some reason you want to go after an insecure chick. I don't see it as much more than an ego boost, and it will probably hurt you in the long run, but to each his own i guess.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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