"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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C&F in High School....

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I'm not saying that you shouldn't be ****y and funny in high school, but girls DO like a guy who can be humble, too. Make sure that girls know you're kidding when you say something C&F. If not, build their trust up so you CAN say something C&F. It's pretty easy to seem like a jerk in high school when all you're really doing is trying to be funny.

Girls like humble men....who have humor and the ****iness inside them.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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When I say something C/F, I'm not kidding. I'm actually BEING C/F.

****y & Funny is supposed to be the way you are, if you do it right it has nothing to do with being a jerk.

And personally I think girls like ****y & Funny guys, not humble guys. But there are exceptions.
 
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this isn't a tip, its an anti tip...and it sucks too. How bout you talk about something relevant or something you know about? A tip that girls kinda like CF guys isn't a tip
 
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Girls are turned off by jerks...unless she's really slutty. I'm saying, make SURE you're FUNNY when you're being ****y.
 
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i am me has a point. There should be a healthy balance to everything and on this site I think there is a heavy emphasis placed on the C & F when really being ****y and funny is something that comes out of a persons personality. It shouldn't be portrayed as a characteristic that everybody needs to adopt as their own. Girls don't all have the same stereotypical guy they all dream of, they all have different preferences. If you're a ****y/funny guy, great, but if that's not really the person you are, it's most likely going to come across as unnatural and probably not even that funny.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by i am me
Girls are turned off by jerks...unless she's really slutty. I'm saying, make SURE you're FUNNY when you're being ****y.
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That's usually true if he's a jerk to HER.

But mostly if the guy is a jerk to other people but relatively nice to her (although not abandoning his character, not becoming AFCish), she'll be REALLY attracted to him. (Not encouraging this.)

Now that comment that "only slutty" girls are turned on by jerks is FALSE. Most girls are turned on, whether she's slutty or not, except the slutty one is more likely to act on the impulse of attraction -- and "nice" girls might hold back due to what she THINKS is right.
 
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