"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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C&F in High School....

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I'm not saying that you shouldn't be ****y and funny in high school, but girls DO like a guy who can be humble, too. Make sure that girls know you're kidding when you say something C&F. If not, build their trust up so you CAN say something C&F. It's pretty easy to seem like a jerk in high school when all you're really doing is trying to be funny.

Girls like humble men....who have humor and the ****iness inside them.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When I say something C/F, I'm not kidding. I'm actually BEING C/F.

****y & Funny is supposed to be the way you are, if you do it right it has nothing to do with being a jerk.

And personally I think girls like ****y & Funny guys, not humble guys. But there are exceptions.
 
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this isn't a tip, its an anti tip...and it sucks too. How bout you talk about something relevant or something you know about? A tip that girls kinda like CF guys isn't a tip
 
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Girls are turned off by jerks...unless she's really slutty. I'm saying, make SURE you're FUNNY when you're being ****y.
 
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i am me has a point. There should be a healthy balance to everything and on this site I think there is a heavy emphasis placed on the C & F when really being ****y and funny is something that comes out of a persons personality. It shouldn't be portrayed as a characteristic that everybody needs to adopt as their own. Girls don't all have the same stereotypical guy they all dream of, they all have different preferences. If you're a ****y/funny guy, great, but if that's not really the person you are, it's most likely going to come across as unnatural and probably not even that funny.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by i am me
Girls are turned off by jerks...unless she's really slutty. I'm saying, make SURE you're FUNNY when you're being ****y.
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That's usually true if he's a jerk to HER.

But mostly if the guy is a jerk to other people but relatively nice to her (although not abandoning his character, not becoming AFCish), she'll be REALLY attracted to him. (Not encouraging this.)

Now that comment that "only slutty" girls are turned on by jerks is FALSE. Most girls are turned on, whether she's slutty or not, except the slutty one is more likely to act on the impulse of attraction -- and "nice" girls might hold back due to what she THINKS is right.
 
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