"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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C&F and the kiss

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just a quick question;

when your going in for the kiss for the first time to guage IL ('something in your hair', move in, lift chin, basic kino, then move in for the kiss iteslef), should you go straight in, or would some C&F completely ruin any chances

when I'm thinking C&F, i' thinking, after touching the face, if I were to say sometihng along the lines of

'if your going to knee me, let me know now'
the idea is to get a smile and definate confermation (particular girl I'm going to do this on hasn't pulled back last time I got within nose touching distance, but at that time I wasn't interested and jokingly called her a *****)

slight humour, but...........would that be just BAD (ie as your moving in, stop, say it, and get response and continue to move in)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i've actually pretty recently come right out and said.

"can i kiss you?"

lol, thank god the answer was.. "duh!"
 
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why did you do this? yeh i know 1 of the great DJ newsletter tips recomended it but you really should not say this.

if you must then just say to her kiss me, or somthing like that, but never ask weather or not you can.
 
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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
why did you do this? yeh i know 1 of the great DJ newsletter tips recomended it but you really should not say this.

if you must then just say to her kiss me, or somthing like that, but never ask weather or not you can.
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i know, i had no idea what was going through my head, she was just laying down on the couch, her head in my lap and i asked.. "can i kiss you"

:eek: next time i'll play it more smooth
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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you no what could be a good idea, say, in a sexy voice, as you are aobut to go in for a kiss "im going to kiss you now"
 
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Originally posted by squirrels
There's a time to play games and there's a time to shut up and kiss. :p
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I think too much I'm told


no C&F, if she hasn't recoiled, my mouth is shut (the first time anyway)
 
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