"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bytch talking behing my back.

SamePendo

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The bytch from this thread has been talking behind my back.

To make a long story short. There is this witch that has been talking behind my back, and discretely ****blocking me. Now, the thing is, I've treated her like a friend from the beggining, she's the cousin of a lady that is like family to me. And she treats me like such, but not in my back. And when she discretely ****blocks me, she does it in ways that don't seem like ****blocking, not blatant at least.

And there's nothing about the ****blocking behind my back either.

Now, I thought that she's just mad, and that she does this because she's, mad. But then some have pointed that she's jealous, and has a weird crush on me. And that I haven't caught the hook because I've been been treating her innocently in a non-sexual manner.

What do you think? Any more details to help you help me?

I haven't done anything now, but try not to cross paths with her (I basicaly only see her at the gym). But, should I go and tell her to fvck off? To do whatever she wants, but not as my friend anymore... dunno. Because I'll be damned if I don't do **** and treat her as if nothing happens.

Thanks!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I have read your latest threads and I got to shake my head.....

SamePendo latley you are acting like a woman , having oneitis for a 40 year old with issues, and now you are playing chick games with this friend of hers.

I don't know about you but having a woman is my life should add pleasure not added stress or unnecessary drama. Cut her friend out of your life completly and don't worry about what she says behind your back. It also sounds to me that somewhere down the line you changed roles with your girlfriend and now she wears the pants and calling the shots in the relationship. Get back to chasing women in their 20's and be free again.
 

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Wow...is this the same SamePendo? Man the flowers....just...wow.

Anyways, I see NO way of getting this girl to change her mind about you now. Its all over for now. MAYBE if you moved on she will come crawling back, but its not gonna happen if you constantly looking over your shoulder to see if she is behind you if u catch my drift.

Anyhow, imma say this again although I HIGHLY think you will disregard it...MOVE ON...either now or after you get shut down. Im not saying give up on her totally...just put her in the long term goal category. Maybe a couple months down the road when you got your pimp hand strong again. Right now, your thinking is clouded (flowers....*shudders*) and you are overanalyzing stuff she does and I highly doubt she is worth all of this.

I have been in the same situation sort of. I dumped a girl and then reevaluated her and wanted 2 get back and she declined. When I couldnt have her it was like i threw her on a plateau and worshipped her. Thats all it is with this girl man. You cant have her right now so she is the apple of your eye. Like i said before...Dont write her off, but forget about her for the time being (at least 3 months)
 

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DJDamage said:
your girlfriend
I won't even correct that. :nervous:

I have been acting like a woman. You 2 guys are on spot with this. Funnily enough, this other chick out of nowhere invited me over to "watch a movie". Thank god she did after this chick drama happened.

I'm already thinking about doing a "Giovanni Cassanova" on the "SP has oneitis" thread. :D Not sure if I still can, I won't anyway, but I'm very tempted.

Thankyou very much.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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