"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bytch talking behing my back.

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The bytch from this thread has been talking behind my back.

To make a long story short. There is this witch that has been talking behind my back, and discretely ****blocking me. Now, the thing is, I've treated her like a friend from the beggining, she's the cousin of a lady that is like family to me. And she treats me like such, but not in my back. And when she discretely ****blocks me, she does it in ways that don't seem like ****blocking, not blatant at least.

And there's nothing about the ****blocking behind my back either.

Now, I thought that she's just mad, and that she does this because she's, mad. But then some have pointed that she's jealous, and has a weird crush on me. And that I haven't caught the hook because I've been been treating her innocently in a non-sexual manner.

What do you think? Any more details to help you help me?

I haven't done anything now, but try not to cross paths with her (I basicaly only see her at the gym). But, should I go and tell her to fvck off? To do whatever she wants, but not as my friend anymore... dunno. Because I'll be damned if I don't do **** and treat her as if nothing happens.

Thanks!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I have read your latest threads and I got to shake my head.....

SamePendo latley you are acting like a woman , having oneitis for a 40 year old with issues, and now you are playing chick games with this friend of hers.

I don't know about you but having a woman is my life should add pleasure not added stress or unnecessary drama. Cut her friend out of your life completly and don't worry about what she says behind your back. It also sounds to me that somewhere down the line you changed roles with your girlfriend and now she wears the pants and calling the shots in the relationship. Get back to chasing women in their 20's and be free again.
 
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Wow...is this the same SamePendo? Man the flowers....just...wow.

Anyways, I see NO way of getting this girl to change her mind about you now. Its all over for now. MAYBE if you moved on she will come crawling back, but its not gonna happen if you constantly looking over your shoulder to see if she is behind you if u catch my drift.

Anyhow, imma say this again although I HIGHLY think you will disregard it...MOVE ON...either now or after you get shut down. Im not saying give up on her totally...just put her in the long term goal category. Maybe a couple months down the road when you got your pimp hand strong again. Right now, your thinking is clouded (flowers....*shudders*) and you are overanalyzing stuff she does and I highly doubt she is worth all of this.

I have been in the same situation sort of. I dumped a girl and then reevaluated her and wanted 2 get back and she declined. When I couldnt have her it was like i threw her on a plateau and worshipped her. Thats all it is with this girl man. You cant have her right now so she is the apple of your eye. Like i said before...Dont write her off, but forget about her for the time being (at least 3 months)
 
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DJDamage said:
your girlfriend
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I won't even correct that. :nervous:

I have been acting like a woman. You 2 guys are on spot with this. Funnily enough, this other chick out of nowhere invited me over to "watch a movie". Thank god she did after this chick drama happened.

I'm already thinking about doing a "Giovanni Cassanova" on the "SP has oneitis" thread. :D Not sure if I still can, I won't anyway, but I'm very tempted.

Thankyou very much.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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