"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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buying some bling ->over doing it?

jigga23

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Im 24 and materialistic as fvck. when i was 22 i bought a brand new 05 benz. then i bought a pair of 2500 diamond earrings. a couple of days ago i bought a 2700 dollar watch with a diamond bezel. the sales lady was like is this for your gf. i was like no i dont have one right now i dont buy them sh!t like this. she was like wow i cant believe you dont have a gf. i broke up with my ex one time when i was 22. i needed a new car and was pissed so i decided to buy the benz. it was so funny as soon as she saw it she was all over me and basically initiating us getting back together. it seems like people get intimated when they see the sh!t i have. Im young and look young am i over doing it? Im just trying to come back 10 times bigger before i broke up with my gf a while ago. that sh!t was killing me inside and kind of fvcked up my head for a while but i think im getting better. i just want to build my self up as much as possible now. i got all that nice sh!t, good looking, pretty big/muscular, about to start my masters degree. i just think having the bling bling with all that is good.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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MetalFortress

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jigga23 said:
Im 24 and materialistic as fvck. when i was 22 i bought a brand new 05 benz. then i bought a pair of 2500 diamond earrings. a couple of days ago i bought a 2700 dollar watch with a diamond bezel. the sales lady was like is this for your gf. i was like no i dont have one right now i dont buy them sh!t like this. she was like wow i cant believe you dont have a gf. i broke up with my ex one time when i was 22. i needed a new car and was pissed so i decided to buy the benz. it was so funny as soon as she saw it she was all over me and basically initiating us getting back together. it seems like people get intimated when they see the sh!t i have. Im young and look young am i over doing it? Im just trying to come back 10 times bigger before i broke up with my gf a while ago. that sh!t was killing me inside and kind of fvcked up my head for a while but i think im getting better. i just want to build my self up as much as possible now. i got all that nice sh!t, good looking, pretty big/muscular, about to start my masters degree. i just think having the bling bling with all that is good.
Why put yourself out to have that much? Instead of going broke, invest your money and build wealth so you can not only afford those same luxuries more easily, but afford better luxuries. Benz good, Bentley better.
 

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I second that. If you're so rich that these purchases don't phase you, then good for you. I say have fun and use it to your advantage.

But if you're blowing money and not putting much away for the future, well, a lot of guys could do that, but choose not to because it's stupid.
 

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All this bling huh. I would venture to guess you're one of those suburban trust fund kids, am I right?

Also seems like you're trying to impress us.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bigg Boss

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It's good to stay fresh to def, but don't blow all your money. When they find out you have no money, they ain't gonna wanna be around you.

But if you can afford all that and have money left, then good 4 ya.
 

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People like you make me ashamed of our race!
 

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are u in debt? If u are then i'd say ya u are over doing it. As long as u have enough money for the other things in life i'd say ur fine.
 
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