Im 24 and materialistic as fvck. when i was 22 i bought a brand new 05 benz. then i bought a pair of 2500 diamond earrings. a couple of days ago i bought a 2700 dollar watch with a diamond bezel. the sales lady was like is this for your gf. i was like no i dont have one right now i dont buy them sh!t like this. she was like wow i cant believe you dont have a gf. i broke up with my ex one time when i was 22. i needed a new car and was pissed so i decided to buy the benz. it was so funny as soon as she saw it she was all over me and basically initiating us getting back together. it seems like people get intimated when they see the sh!t i have. Im young and look young am i over doing it? Im just trying to come back 10 times bigger before i broke up with my gf a while ago. that sh!t was killing me inside and kind of fvcked up my head for a while but i think im getting better. i just want to build my self up as much as possible now. i got all that nice sh!t, good looking, pretty big/muscular, about to start my masters degree. i just think having the bling bling with all that is good.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
buying some bling ->over doing it?
- Thread starter jigga23
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Why put yourself out to have that much? Instead of going broke, invest your money and build wealth so you can not only afford those same luxuries more easily, but afford better luxuries. Benz good, Bentley better.jigga23 said:Im 24 and materialistic as fvck. when i was 22 i bought a brand new 05 benz. then i bought a pair of 2500 diamond earrings. a couple of days ago i bought a 2700 dollar watch with a diamond bezel. the sales lady was like is this for your gf. i was like no i dont have one right now i dont buy them sh!t like this. she was like wow i cant believe you dont have a gf. i broke up with my ex one time when i was 22. i needed a new car and was pissed so i decided to buy the benz. it was so funny as soon as she saw it she was all over me and basically initiating us getting back together. it seems like people get intimated when they see the sh!t i have. Im young and look young am i over doing it? Im just trying to come back 10 times bigger before i broke up with my gf a while ago. that sh!t was killing me inside and kind of fvcked up my head for a while but i think im getting better. i just want to build my self up as much as possible now. i got all that nice sh!t, good looking, pretty big/muscular, about to start my masters degree. i just think having the bling bling with all that is good.
I second that. If you're so rich that these purchases don't phase you, then good for you. I say have fun and use it to your advantage.
But if you're blowing money and not putting much away for the future, well, a lot of guys could do that, but choose not to because it's stupid.
But if you're blowing money and not putting much away for the future, well, a lot of guys could do that, but choose not to because it's stupid.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
donjuanjovi
Senior Don Juan
People like you make me ashamed of our race!