"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"Buying Signals": What To Look For?

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I usually find my girlfriends through my circles of friends in classes and parties, but I'm getting fired up about doing some cold approaches too. I don't try this very often. What are some good clues to look for when girls want to be approached? I was at a bookstore today and had some interesting situations.

First, I was at the magazine rack, and noticed this blonde skinny girl staring at me. I looked behind me and she was standing directly behind me, staring at me over her shoulder. I was thinking about talking to her, but she might've been a bit too young. Probably still in high school.

Then, I saw a woman who was a bit older, maybe late twenties. She was seated in front of me, with her back to me. After a few minutes, she got up very slowly, bending over to get out of her chair. The problem is, she wasn't wearing any underwear, and wound up exposing half her bare ass to me. She kept looking back at me and laughing as she got up, and then walked off. Was this girl just embarrassed or was this ass flash possibly some flirting on her part? I hope to get flashed more often. :cool:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You (key word coming up!) DO NOT need 'buying signals' to approach. I will say that again (because repeatition is important), you DO NOT need 'buying signals' to approach.

How can that be possible? Because she could think you're hot, but never talk to you. Exactly what you did on the bus and the store, girls do the same thing. They look but never act.

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If you can't see the obvious cues of attraction..you have no buisness being with a woman.It's most likely that you would'nt get other parts of the big picture if you still don't understand the inital process of attraction taking place in real time.Not directing it at you personaly,just a general rule of thumb..
 

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all in all nobody has answered this guys question so let me actually apply an answer to this thread to make your time posting it not such a waste of time/life

a good buying signal is when a girl gives you SOLID eye contact, eye contact that last longer than a split second.. and if you get the famous "double take" where she looks at you turns her glance away and then looks at you again.. Your pretty much a green to go ahead and talk to her.

an other thing you can look for is when you make eye contact with a girl that has made eye contact with you, dont' even thing about it but flash a smile her way, if she smiles back or looks away with a smile.. that's also your key

hope that helps some
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yeah, her barenaked, pantieless ass. I'm wondering if girls flash us like that deliberately. You know, bending over displaying the "puppies" or...


knglerxt said:
You're either seeing things, or you're a lot luckier than I am.
 
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