"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"Buying Signals": What To Look For?

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I usually find my girlfriends through my circles of friends in classes and parties, but I'm getting fired up about doing some cold approaches too. I don't try this very often. What are some good clues to look for when girls want to be approached? I was at a bookstore today and had some interesting situations.

First, I was at the magazine rack, and noticed this blonde skinny girl staring at me. I looked behind me and she was standing directly behind me, staring at me over her shoulder. I was thinking about talking to her, but she might've been a bit too young. Probably still in high school.

Then, I saw a woman who was a bit older, maybe late twenties. She was seated in front of me, with her back to me. After a few minutes, she got up very slowly, bending over to get out of her chair. The problem is, she wasn't wearing any underwear, and wound up exposing half her bare ass to me. She kept looking back at me and laughing as she got up, and then walked off. Was this girl just embarrassed or was this ass flash possibly some flirting on her part? I hope to get flashed more often. :cool:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You (key word coming up!) DO NOT need 'buying signals' to approach. I will say that again (because repeatition is important), you DO NOT need 'buying signals' to approach.

How can that be possible? Because she could think you're hot, but never talk to you. Exactly what you did on the bus and the store, girls do the same thing. They look but never act.

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If you can't see the obvious cues of attraction..you have no buisness being with a woman.It's most likely that you would'nt get other parts of the big picture if you still don't understand the inital process of attraction taking place in real time.Not directing it at you personaly,just a general rule of thumb..
 

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all in all nobody has answered this guys question so let me actually apply an answer to this thread to make your time posting it not such a waste of time/life

a good buying signal is when a girl gives you SOLID eye contact, eye contact that last longer than a split second.. and if you get the famous "double take" where she looks at you turns her glance away and then looks at you again.. Your pretty much a green to go ahead and talk to her.

an other thing you can look for is when you make eye contact with a girl that has made eye contact with you, dont' even thing about it but flash a smile her way, if she smiles back or looks away with a smile.. that's also your key

hope that helps some
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yeah, her barenaked, pantieless ass. I'm wondering if girls flash us like that deliberately. You know, bending over displaying the "puppies" or...


knglerxt said:
You're either seeing things, or you're a lot luckier than I am.
 
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