"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Buying Florida Foreclosures

ElChoclo

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Could anyone with some experience buying Florida foreclosures indicate whether this is likely to be a viable investment in the medium to longterm, and major pitfalls.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ElChoclo

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There does appear to be blood now, but Moodys supposedly say prices could be depressed for decades there. What about Miami as opposed to more rural swampland?
 

speed dawg

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I bought a house in Florida and think it's the best financial decision I've made so far in my life. I stand to make a killing.

Of course, you have to take into consideration that I paid 220K in a neighborhood where the houses were going for 500K a few years ago, AND I'm in a big vacation destination so I have many options for income with it.

Need to look around the neighborhood and make sure it will bounce back. Look near the coast.

And like someone already said, yes, there is already blood in the street. I don't think the housing bust is going any lower.
 

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i think housing in the US is one of the most undervalued assets right now. that said it is always hard to predict what the future will look like since median income in this country has been flat or down. you should more focus on the cash flow you can get and less on any potential appreciation. i am in the process of buying another investment property myself but at this point i am thinking of sticking close to home because its easier when there are issues.
 

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hey I live in homestead,florida no one o here knows more about real estate on here in miami then me message me here with your contatc info:)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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