"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Buying Florida Foreclosures

ElChoclo

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Could anyone with some experience buying Florida foreclosures indicate whether this is likely to be a viable investment in the medium to longterm, and major pitfalls.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ElChoclo

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There does appear to be blood now, but Moodys supposedly say prices could be depressed for decades there. What about Miami as opposed to more rural swampland?
 

speed dawg

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I bought a house in Florida and think it's the best financial decision I've made so far in my life. I stand to make a killing.

Of course, you have to take into consideration that I paid 220K in a neighborhood where the houses were going for 500K a few years ago, AND I'm in a big vacation destination so I have many options for income with it.

Need to look around the neighborhood and make sure it will bounce back. Look near the coast.

And like someone already said, yes, there is already blood in the street. I don't think the housing bust is going any lower.
 

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i think housing in the US is one of the most undervalued assets right now. that said it is always hard to predict what the future will look like since median income in this country has been flat or down. you should more focus on the cash flow you can get and less on any potential appreciation. i am in the process of buying another investment property myself but at this point i am thinking of sticking close to home because its easier when there are issues.
 

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hey I live in homestead,florida no one o here knows more about real estate on here in miami then me message me here with your contatc info:)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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