You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ian19 said:Yeah, I am now retiring the Skechers, though.
I'm thinking about these :
http://www.shoebuy.com/dr-martens-carey-8-eye-boot/312750/668554
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I plan to order these over the weekend. I just can't decide between the black or the cherry. I like both equally.TyTe`EyEz said:I have the brown pair like that. They've held together for about 8 years. Doc Martins are worth the money, that's for sure.
Ian19 said:I've been thinking about these as well, but they seem like they could be overkill. Any opinions?
http://www.shoebuy.com/dr-martens-3989bwsm-5-eyelet-broque/9212/9212