She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ian19 said:Yeah, I am now retiring the Skechers, though.
I'm thinking about these :
http://www.shoebuy.com/dr-martens-carey-8-eye-boot/312750/668554
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I plan to order these over the weekend. I just can't decide between the black or the cherry. I like both equally.TyTe`EyEz said:I have the brown pair like that. They've held together for about 8 years. Doc Martins are worth the money, that's for sure.
Ian19 said:I've been thinking about these as well, but they seem like they could be overkill. Any opinions?
http://www.shoebuy.com/dr-martens-3989bwsm-5-eyelet-broque/9212/9212