"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Buying an established business

Teflon_Mcgee

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What are everbody's thoughts on buying an established business?

Particularly if you have little to no real experience running a business?

Is it a good alternative to starting one if you have no idea where to begin and good capital ($100,000-$200,000 free and clear.)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Dude, you should never buy anything (especially investments) which you don't understand.

Alright, that advice will cost 'ya $100,000... You seem to be loaded... :p
 

STR8UP

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Pros-

1) You can easily leverage the business from an existing owner. most people expect to only put down a percentage and the owner holds a note for the rest. Conserve your cash! you will likely need it.

2) Training. Especially if you have never ran a business before

3) Proven concept. Less risk.

Cons-

1) A business owner can manipulate the books to make a buisiness appear to be more profitable than it is.

2) You will pay a premium for an established, profitable business.

3) you don't get the satisfaction of creating something from scratch.

Business is tough and it's a huge responsibility. I wouldn't recommend making a commitment until you know what it entails. Start small. you might find out that you love it, but at the same time you might hate it.

Remember- it's MUCH easier to buy a business than it is to sell it. Keep that in mind before you commit to anything.
 
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