"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Buying an established business

Teflon_Mcgee

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What are everbody's thoughts on buying an established business?

Particularly if you have little to no real experience running a business?

Is it a good alternative to starting one if you have no idea where to begin and good capital ($100,000-$200,000 free and clear.)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Dude, you should never buy anything (especially investments) which you don't understand.

Alright, that advice will cost 'ya $100,000... You seem to be loaded... :p
 

STR8UP

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Pros-

1) You can easily leverage the business from an existing owner. most people expect to only put down a percentage and the owner holds a note for the rest. Conserve your cash! you will likely need it.

2) Training. Especially if you have never ran a business before

3) Proven concept. Less risk.

Cons-

1) A business owner can manipulate the books to make a buisiness appear to be more profitable than it is.

2) You will pay a premium for an established, profitable business.

3) you don't get the satisfaction of creating something from scratch.

Business is tough and it's a huge responsibility. I wouldn't recommend making a commitment until you know what it entails. Start small. you might find out that you love it, but at the same time you might hate it.

Remember- it's MUCH easier to buy a business than it is to sell it. Keep that in mind before you commit to anything.
 
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