"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Buying a home

whatdude

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Hey I was wondering if any of you have any information on getting a loan for a home?

My mom is pretty stupid and doesn't know how to go about doing it. And she has pretty bad credit and has a low income. Is there any possibility of her being able to get a loan for a home? And if there is... where?


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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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S1NN3R

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How bad and how low? PM if you don't feel like broadcasting it, and I can tell you what the options are.
 

KarmaSutra

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FHA and foreclosed properties would be her best option. Why is your mom stupid? You still live at home?If so, How are you progressing in getting out of moms womb and making it on your own?
 

penkitten

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for low income families wanting to purchase a home that will have based on income payments and interest that can be as low as 1% contact your local usda rural development
http://www.rurdev.usda.gov/

however, they may insist that she clean her credit up before she can be allowed to purchase a home thru their program.

you would want to look for a program called "yes you can buy a home" if they still call it that.

here is their faq page
http://www.rurdev.usda.gov/vt/mostfrequentlyaskedquestions.htm
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Search the Anything Else forum for "real estate" or "mortgage."
 

Desdinova

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If she wants the REAL answers, tell her to talk to a bank. They will let her know if she can take out a mortgage, and how much she qualifies for.... if she qualifies at all.

If she can actually get a mortgage, then you talk to a real estate agent and go from there.
 
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