Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Buying a home

whatdude

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Hey I was wondering if any of you have any information on getting a loan for a home?

My mom is pretty stupid and doesn't know how to go about doing it. And she has pretty bad credit and has a low income. Is there any possibility of her being able to get a loan for a home? And if there is... where?


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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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S1NN3R

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How bad and how low? PM if you don't feel like broadcasting it, and I can tell you what the options are.
 

KarmaSutra

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FHA and foreclosed properties would be her best option. Why is your mom stupid? You still live at home?If so, How are you progressing in getting out of moms womb and making it on your own?
 

penkitten

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for low income families wanting to purchase a home that will have based on income payments and interest that can be as low as 1% contact your local usda rural development
http://www.rurdev.usda.gov/

however, they may insist that she clean her credit up before she can be allowed to purchase a home thru their program.

you would want to look for a program called "yes you can buy a home" if they still call it that.

here is their faq page
http://www.rurdev.usda.gov/vt/mostfrequentlyaskedquestions.htm
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Search the Anything Else forum for "real estate" or "mortgage."
 

Desdinova

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If she wants the REAL answers, tell her to talk to a bank. They will let her know if she can take out a mortgage, and how much she qualifies for.... if she qualifies at all.

If she can actually get a mortgage, then you talk to a real estate agent and go from there.
 
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