"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Buying a girl flowers....

Essa Rios

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Been on 3 dates with this girl and everything is going great. She shows lots of interest and i notice she is always grabing my arms and my stomach. ( i
workout i'm not big but more lean and cut) We have plans to have breakfast tomorrow morning and i want to surprise her with flowers as i recall her saying how much she likes them. Do you guys think its too soon for flowers??? Or should i wait a bit longer before i give her any gifts. We have kiss and all but no sex.......yet :) Thanks!!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Im no expert but generally I dont give gifts until after I have had sex with the woman, the gift will probably be better recieved if you give her after you have had sex with her.
 

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Why are there so many threads like this here?
Trolls?
OMFG No No No! Flowers are for your mother.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Poonani Maker

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Coffeebazooka said:
Im no expert but generally I dont give gifts until after I have had sex with the woman, the gift will probably be better recieved if you give her after you have had sex with her.
I agree with this and ^_____^

I've purchased a little stuffed animal of a ram. It goes to the girl who wants me the most and who I've fvcked the most when I decide to give it to her.
 

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Judge nismo has been asked a stupid question in the court. :yawn:

Flowers aren't for dates. They're for Mother's Day, Valentine's Day, Funerals, Etc. If you're hiking, you can pick one for your date there, as it don't cost, but buying a dozen roses is afc and should only be viewed on tv & movies. We all know that sh*t don't work. Giving a girl flowers comes with a 9 dollar fine and a trip to Broken Niceguy, Nebraska.

Case closed. Damn.
 

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Inexperienced guys will vote against flowers but the reality is flowers are a very very powerful gift to give to a woman. If she likes you getting flowers for a girl will work to your advantage tremendously (even for the women who say they don't want flowers) !! Keep in mind that flowers alone won't do the trick of winning a girl over.

You should have already won her over, the flowers will be the icing on the cake that will give you bonus points when it comes time for you to get presents, avoiding arguments, sexual favors or anything you want from a girl. (Im telling you this from personal experience)

I'm also going to recommend giving presents AFTER your together as a couple. You should be giving gifts a few months into a relationship not during the dating stages.

p.s. Im assuming you want this girl as a girlfriend and not just a f-ck.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You shouldn't buy anything until AFTER you have been intimate with a woman. A gift should be a reward of how she MADE YOU FEEL. It's okay to buy flowers but wait till she is intimate and or is your girlfriend.
 

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You ain't gonna' get laid with flowers unless you use them to beat her with them!!!

PS: You ain't gonna' listen i'm sure. Here you are driving into the electricity column, and there's nothing we can do to help you!
 
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