"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Buying a girl flowers....

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Been on 3 dates with this girl and everything is going great. She shows lots of interest and i notice she is always grabing my arms and my stomach. ( i
workout i'm not big but more lean and cut) We have plans to have breakfast tomorrow morning and i want to surprise her with flowers as i recall her saying how much she likes them. Do you guys think its too soon for flowers??? Or should i wait a bit longer before i give her any gifts. We have kiss and all but no sex.......yet :) Thanks!!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Im no expert but generally I dont give gifts until after I have had sex with the woman, the gift will probably be better recieved if you give her after you have had sex with her.
 

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Why are there so many threads like this here?
Trolls?
OMFG No No No! Flowers are for your mother.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Poonani Maker

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Coffeebazooka said:
Im no expert but generally I dont give gifts until after I have had sex with the woman, the gift will probably be better recieved if you give her after you have had sex with her.
I agree with this and ^_____^

I've purchased a little stuffed animal of a ram. It goes to the girl who wants me the most and who I've fvcked the most when I decide to give it to her.
 

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Judge nismo has been asked a stupid question in the court. :yawn:

Flowers aren't for dates. They're for Mother's Day, Valentine's Day, Funerals, Etc. If you're hiking, you can pick one for your date there, as it don't cost, but buying a dozen roses is afc and should only be viewed on tv & movies. We all know that sh*t don't work. Giving a girl flowers comes with a 9 dollar fine and a trip to Broken Niceguy, Nebraska.

Case closed. Damn.
 

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Inexperienced guys will vote against flowers but the reality is flowers are a very very powerful gift to give to a woman. If she likes you getting flowers for a girl will work to your advantage tremendously (even for the women who say they don't want flowers) !! Keep in mind that flowers alone won't do the trick of winning a girl over.

You should have already won her over, the flowers will be the icing on the cake that will give you bonus points when it comes time for you to get presents, avoiding arguments, sexual favors or anything you want from a girl. (Im telling you this from personal experience)

I'm also going to recommend giving presents AFTER your together as a couple. You should be giving gifts a few months into a relationship not during the dating stages.

p.s. Im assuming you want this girl as a girlfriend and not just a f-ck.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You shouldn't buy anything until AFTER you have been intimate with a woman. A gift should be a reward of how she MADE YOU FEEL. It's okay to buy flowers but wait till she is intimate and or is your girlfriend.
 

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You ain't gonna' get laid with flowers unless you use them to beat her with them!!!

PS: You ain't gonna' listen i'm sure. Here you are driving into the electricity column, and there's nothing we can do to help you!
 
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