"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Buying a girl flowers....

Essa Rios

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Been on 3 dates with this girl and everything is going great. She shows lots of interest and i notice she is always grabing my arms and my stomach. ( i
workout i'm not big but more lean and cut) We have plans to have breakfast tomorrow morning and i want to surprise her with flowers as i recall her saying how much she likes them. Do you guys think its too soon for flowers??? Or should i wait a bit longer before i give her any gifts. We have kiss and all but no sex.......yet :) Thanks!!!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Coffeebazooka

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Im no expert but generally I dont give gifts until after I have had sex with the woman, the gift will probably be better recieved if you give her after you have had sex with her.
 

jtlancer

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Why are there so many threads like this here?
Trolls?
OMFG No No No! Flowers are for your mother.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Poonani Maker

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Coffeebazooka said:
Im no expert but generally I dont give gifts until after I have had sex with the woman, the gift will probably be better recieved if you give her after you have had sex with her.
I agree with this and ^_____^

I've purchased a little stuffed animal of a ram. It goes to the girl who wants me the most and who I've fvcked the most when I decide to give it to her.
 

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Judge nismo has been asked a stupid question in the court. :yawn:

Flowers aren't for dates. They're for Mother's Day, Valentine's Day, Funerals, Etc. If you're hiking, you can pick one for your date there, as it don't cost, but buying a dozen roses is afc and should only be viewed on tv & movies. We all know that sh*t don't work. Giving a girl flowers comes with a 9 dollar fine and a trip to Broken Niceguy, Nebraska.

Case closed. Damn.
 

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Inexperienced guys will vote against flowers but the reality is flowers are a very very powerful gift to give to a woman. If she likes you getting flowers for a girl will work to your advantage tremendously (even for the women who say they don't want flowers) !! Keep in mind that flowers alone won't do the trick of winning a girl over.

You should have already won her over, the flowers will be the icing on the cake that will give you bonus points when it comes time for you to get presents, avoiding arguments, sexual favors or anything you want from a girl. (Im telling you this from personal experience)

I'm also going to recommend giving presents AFTER your together as a couple. You should be giving gifts a few months into a relationship not during the dating stages.

p.s. Im assuming you want this girl as a girlfriend and not just a f-ck.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You shouldn't buy anything until AFTER you have been intimate with a woman. A gift should be a reward of how she MADE YOU FEEL. It's okay to buy flowers but wait till she is intimate and or is your girlfriend.
 

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You ain't gonna' get laid with flowers unless you use them to beat her with them!!!

PS: You ain't gonna' listen i'm sure. Here you are driving into the electricity column, and there's nothing we can do to help you!
 
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